‘With their capacity for aggresssion strait-jacketed within a too narrow morality, those who are only or merely compassionate and self sacrificing (and naive and exploitable) cannot call forth the genuinely righteous and appropiately self protective anger necessary to protect themselves.’
Author: Sue Young
Quote Of The Week
‘Did you ever feel, as though you had something inside you that was only waiting for you to give it a chance to come out? Some sort of extra power that you aren’t using.’
Ode To Adam Fresco
He wouldn’t let us eat him, or drink him during break
He never let us beat him, or bake him in a cake
But never once did we wish to cut off his legs
Or impale him on a stick
We wouldn’t dream of killing him, for fear of making him sick
He taught us how to act, had passion for plays
Knew all about the theatre, made us crave the stage
I think he understood us, like great teachers only could
And I think we understood him, like only mothers could
Now Adam’s in New Zealand, doing all of the same things
Encouraging students writing
And inspiring all their dreams.
White!
(I wrote this at age 27, when I discovered my hair was going grey, or more to the point, white).
Help! Isn’t there a pill I can take, a book I can read, a cream I can put on? No-one warned me about this, no-one told me how it would make me feel, the colour so bright, so dazzling white, like a beacon stretching for miles in the night. Why didn’t anyone tell me, that it would be resistant to dye, resistant to just about anything? This new hair colour has super strength.
It’s impervious
Impenetrable
Conspicious
I’m getting old. What do I do, keeping dying my hair, with super dye, every month, so that the little bastards can’t get through? Have to keep chasing the follicle from now on. Did I worry so much? I’ve got white hair, pigment is AWOL, lost, gone on strike. Help!
Of course, I don’t feel the same now, twenty years later. I’m matured , so it hardly matters. To be honest, I don’t really care now but I cared then. I can always dye it blue…or green or tawny brown but the main thing is, I’ve realised that grey hair and white hair look gorgeous too. I know that now. I’ve seen women who wear it extremely well, but more than that, they are confident in their own skin. It feels good/relieving to look back on things that upset me when I was younger, understand why, and realise that they don’t upset me anymore.
Snowflake
I know a snowflake, pitter patter snow
Gets easily offended, by everyone I know
Sensitive as flowers, in the blazing sun
Trampled underneath, never having fun.
I know a snowflake, will take you to the brink
Delicate like crystal, not as special as they think
Selfish, selfish, selfish, anything but wise
Feels entitled to a lot of praise, and don’t dare you criticize
Be the ‘best version’ of yourself, Is the snowflake’s cry
Never ever people please and don’t eat humble pie
Can’t see the wood for the trees, so taken up with woes
You are wrong and they are right, I think that’s how it goes
Politically correct, they’ll do it just to spite
And if you have a different view, they’ll scream and stomp and bite
Two meanings to the word, like the ‘special’ of old
Which can mean the opposite, of what we are told
If someone was called ‘special’, back in older days,
It could mean different things, it could go different ways.
We are all unique, and burn with different flames
Cut from the same cloth, but our clothes are not the same
But by labelling people, as we go,
It can sometimes help to make it so
I know a snowflake, now who could it be?
What did you just say, the snowflake’s me?
I’m offended!
Quote Of The Week
‘Too many tweets make a twat.’
Fun
Here’s my plan for the coming week.

We can all dream… But we can also make it happen.
Blessed By Books
I’ve got four books on the go at the moment. I’m currently reading at various times of the day;
- The Great Gatsby – F. Scott Fitzgerald (I like to read this one late at night. I love Nick Carraway’s casual yet intense observations and the theme of obsessive love)
- Gather Together In My Name – Maya Angelou (Unputdownable for the most part and effortless reading. She has led such a full life)
- Star Trek First Contact – J.M Dillard (Interesting , character driven, lighter reading for the mornings, when I need to relax)
- The Brothers Karamazov – Dostoyevsky – Vol. 2 – (I haven’t read Vol. 1 and it starts at page 383, but it’s dark, tense and suspenseful. It also makes me wonder how many times can you drink to Russia? It seems, infinitely).
I don’t usually have so many books on the go at the same time. It’s usually just one or two, but lately, I am blessed by finding great little bookshops in unexpected places and being able to buy some wonderful books. This month, I’m feeling blessed by books.
Quote Of The Week
‘How extraordinary. I have known Prince Philip all these years. I did not know he had a guilty secret. He likes poetry. Poor man. How dreadful.’
-The Queen Mother discovering that Prince Philip likes poetry. From Backstairs Billy: The life Of William Tallon by Tom Quinn
Quote Of The Week
‘What is done in love, is done well.’
-Vincent Van Gogh