Ever had a missed opportunity?
Whether it’s just a neighbour
Who waved at you
Across the way
From the window
And you froze
And didn’t wave back.
In lockdown.
And now you don’t know
How To Pull it Back.
‘Cos maybe won’t take rejection a second time
And yet, you won’t put your neck on the block
Even though it was them who put their neck on the line
That first time
And you are lonely and isolated
And have fantasized and wished
For a long time
That they would wave at you again.
But you know it’s not their call
And you know you would wave back manically
If they waved back at you again.
‘Cos you just froze
Like you always do.
And backed away from the window
Now they turn away from their window
When you are there
Or look away
Won’t take rejection a second time
But sometimes they stare
Straight at you
Hoping you’ll return the kind gesture
They gave you
But you can’t be spontaneous
Or even planned
Would rather crawl on the floor
Then pass by the window again.
And have often done, to your shame.
Ahem, okay, let’s get off this train of thought
Where was I?
Oh yes, look…
Perhaps there was an job opportunity
A job you didn’t take
Or applied for
Because you didn’t think
You were good enough
Or worthy enough
Or could do it
And sustain it
And authenticate it
Or believe you could do it
Or a romantic relationship that
Passed you by
Because you knew it was wrong
Or maybe it was right
And you fought it tooth and nail
And murdered your feelings
For an easy life
Or because it wasn’t what you were
Or what you were supposed to do
But it never led to an easy anything
Did it?
Ever had a missed opportunity?
When you haven’t smiled
Or didn’t stand up for yourself
Or didn’t say the right thing
The thing you wanted to say
Or didn’t say anything
And let that moment pass
That valuable, precious moment
Hindsight is
20 20 vision
Sometimes.
You didn’t say the right thing
Didn’t do the right thing
What is the right thing?
Is there such a thing?
As a missed opportunity?
If you didn’t do it the first time round
Maybe there is a good reason.
Your natural self reacted
Responses are instinctive
Sometimes not fast enough
For other people
Who Live Their Life
In The Fast Lane
Or you were pre-emptive
But it’s not always what you think it should be
It doesn’t have to be anything
Don’t beat yourself up
Over missed opportunities
Don’t regret these so called
‘Missed opportunities’
We just don’t know
How it would have turned out
If it had happened
It might have been the worst thing
We ever did.
But next time,
As a result of all the missed opportunities
Maybe we might be
More spontaneous
The next time round
And if not
It doesn’t matter
As there’s always a next time
And God Is Good
And will give you limitless opportunities
To miss opportunitiies
Or to hit them
On the bullseye
Every single day
Of your life.
This poem is high-end significant to human nature and deserveto go viral because people indeed-needeach other to co-exist together to make the world a better place to live in as this poem comprise and influeance me to convey:
“Friendship is more valuable than all Ships.” _-Van Prince
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You’re very kind, and that’s so true! Friendship is more valuable than all ships.
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Yet on the otherside of that friendship coin is: “You can be most sure of anything except people, meaning if you meet five real and loyal friends in life, you have encountered five friend that are miracles.”_-Van Prince
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Wonderful poem, it reminds me of a concept that everything that’s happened was “meant to be”, it brought you to the present. I love the way you ended the poem especially, that’s how I view God too.
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I am struggling with ‘what if’ scenerios a lot lately and about if I’d have only done y or z then x wouldn’t have happened, so it really helps when you say everything that has happened is meant to be. I really needed to hear that right now, so thanks Judy and thanks for appreciating my poem.
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You’re welcome, Sue, your poem is full of love. I’ve been thinking about my life choices too, sometimes with regret about relationships I never should’ve been in and others I wish hadn’t ended, thinking but I feel like now (the present) is precious and shouldn’t be wasted on regret. The past should be honored, it brought us to today. A ex of mine had a variation of “if it’s meant to be” he said, “If it’s meant to be, you can’t fuck it up.” Whether in this lifetime or the next, I think what’s meant for you will return to you.
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Sorry for the late reply, I’ve been taking a break. I have regrets too and your comment is really comforting and encouraging right now. Sometimes it’s hard to accept that ultimately, everything is as it should be. Our experiences are meant to be and are meant to be learned from, to help us grow. Your ex hit the nail on the head and you have too, that helps more than you know. So, thank you Judy.
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Great words Sue. A few of my ‘what if’ thoughts fade but never fully go away but these are far outnumbered by all the times I can say, honestly and without regret, ‘it was meant to be’. Thank you.
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You’re very welcome John. Thankyou for taking the time to read it. I’m glad you enjoyed it and thanks for re affirming what I sincerely hope to be true. Your words are very reassuring.
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You are just on the spot!
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Sorry for the late reply. Thank you Kally, that’s much appreciated.
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Ahhh that moment where you realise youve missed something is always awkward. But hey, all part of learning right?
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Absolutely! Thank you Binnzy.
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